Does the Dating Advice You are Getting
Feel Good to You?
Let’s look at a few examples. Dating Advice Case Study 1. Alice. Alice has had many relationships with a variety of men. Due to life-long self-esteem issues, she gravitates towards men who treat her badly. She purchased an expensive course on finding her soul mate, using ideas supposedly from The Secret.
She followed the advice of a man she met online and constantly ‘asks the universe’ to bring her the man of her dreams. However, she has changed nothing in her day to day habits, some of which are unhealthy and self-defeating. She is taking no new actions which would bring her into alignment with her heart’s desire. When she visualizes about her hoped-for husband, deep down, she does not feel a Knowing feeling that he is on his way, and instead feels slightly frustrated. She is in reality, engaged in an anti law of attraction spiral.Dating Advice Case Study 2. Yasmine. Yasmine has had 3 relationships with mentally healthy men who were good to her, but were not a match. Due to life-long habits enhancing her self-esteem, she attracts men who treat her well. She is average in appearance, works in a local factory, she has a strong 'mind body soul' health focus. Following the counsel of her happily married friends, and now wanting to get more serious about marriage, she purchased a few books on finding her soul mate, using healthy thinking ideas from a variety of authors and experts. She has made a clear Decision about the man of her dreams, and how she would feel with him. She has widened her circle of friends and activities and is confident she will meet her future husband in the near future. When she visualizes about her hoped for husband, deep down, she feels a Knowing feeling that he is on his way, and feels energized, excited and content. She is in reality, engaged in healthy thinking… the real law of attraction strategy.Three years later: Alice is buying more dating advice books, cds, courses and has signed up with several online matchmaking services. She has not had a boyfriend in 4 years. Yasmine is engaged to a man she loves. They have a lot of fun, and laugh every day. He treats her with respect, love, and kindness. They will be married next month and plan to start a family, pronto. Sound advice on dating matters is serious business. The advice should be healthy, realistic, and create good feelings within you. You also need to take action in alignment with your Decision to find the love of your life. Send me your questions and stories – our readers love to hear more. Click Here to return to Positive Singles.
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