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Some LOA Parenting Inspiration is a Little Scary
If you know anything about law of attraction strategy as it pertains to parenting inspiration, the evidence-based kind, not the I am a perfect Mom and I have Perfect Kids kind, then you know this: if the counsel you are getting feels wrong, then it probably is.
I decided to write about this issue after seeing a so called expert advising moms to simply use an affirmation like the one in the first paragraph above, and their parenting would magically become more effective. Yikes! My take on this? Only realistic, consistent positive role modelling and messaging or, healthy law of attraction strategies will have a positive impact in your child rearing journey.
Top Parenting Inspiration Tip: What you consistently think about does affect what you say to your children. Subsequently, what you consistently think about, combined with what your verbal messages are, has a powerful life long impact on your children and their behaviour. However, you are not solely responsible for their choices. As they grow, they too will increasingly influence their own reality with the thoughts, words and actions they choose.
Whether it is my take on healthy thinking LOA, modern positive psychology, or cognitive behavioural therapy you are looking to for help, it simply has to make sense, and you should be able to locate at least three references from others who have successfully used the ideas in a book, or worked with a particular counselor, before making major changes.
Life is a series of positive events and not so positive challenges. So is mothering. There is no way around it. As those of you who know my work will attest to, I disagree with the trendy messaging that you attract everything to you, even the bad stuff. Women have had enough of that over the centuries, have we not?
There are many other forces at work in the world and in your attempts to be a great mom. All you can do is the best you can with what you know at the time. Period. True, the more useful parenting inspiration you can take in, the better your motherhood skills are, and the higher your chances of finding and using top quality parenting ideas.
I have heard many women offer testimony to the effectiveness of the strategies I discuss in my books and on this web site. However, if you prefer a less moderate source for your law of attraction synced parenting inspiration, I am more than happy to recommend someone else's work. As well, this site includes more and more non-profit and government sources for healthy positive parenting styles.
Here is one for women in the Saskatchewan area.
Parenting Inspiration Testimonials
A client of mine recently reported to me, after starting to apply my 2 Step strategy, This is awesome! As of now, we are changing the way we think at our house. I'm teaching my kids this too. She is a Graphic Designer. This single mom has 2 teenagers, and is now running two businesses out of her tiny home. She struggled with having made some bad decisions in the past and is now putting into practice healthy positive thinking with her mothering activities.
The Miracle of Love Here is an inspiring story I found, which illustrates how one never knows exactly where our inspiration will come from, when dealing with children and teens. We do have to ask for it, sometimes.Click Here. Thank you Dr. Jordan.