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Real Law of Attraction VS Pie in the Sky
You are disillusioned with what you thought was real law of attraction strategy, and seeking an answer to the popular question,what am I doing wrong? Now imagine you are seeing a therapist about your disappointment with your life path and events you are trying so hard to attract, to no avail. Picture that therapist saying to you now, Well, Mary, you are attracting all this c--p to yourself, and you just need to learn to think positive. You will then attract what you want, and not a minute sooner.
If this was a true scenario, I would strongly advise you to run to someone with better credentials!
Real Law of Attraction, as caring, wise experts have been telling us for centuries, does not work like it does in some scenes of the secret dvd. I do not believe the creators of the scenes in question meant to steer anyone in the wrong direction, though it would have been more effective, I believe, for the focus to have included more evidence based information and helpful findings from the field of modern positive psychology. For example, what are the chances that a poverty stricken child in the slums of a developing country, gets presented with a shiny new bicycle just by imagining it over and over? Or that a woman just emerging from deep personal struggle , poverty and abuse, finds herself the owner of solid stocks, bonds and a loaded off shore account, just by using positive affirmations? You get my drift...
Real Law of Attraction and the Missing Link. Our subconscious mind does not analyze, it assumes all is real, and obeys. It does not differentiate between imagined visualizations and real events. Note: the healthy conscious mind does this very well, however. Since the triggers, inputs and visualizations your subconscious mind is getting are all perceived as real, they trigger real results, including some that manifest in physical effects.
For example: The next time you are hungry, close your eyes and imagine your absolute favorite food. Imagine biting into it, chewing it, the taste in your mouth and the delightful feeling of eating it to your heart's content. You will, in all probability, feel your mouth water. Saliva being produced is a physical result of your imagining this experience.
The missing link then, in any failure to effectively maximize the positive power of real law of attraction strategy in your life, belongs to the fears and beliefs category. Whatever your deepest fears, feelings of shame, regret, pain, rejection or other negative subconscious elements are at play in your mind, take heed. The same mechanism as that of the happy food memory exercise above is at play. It is affecting your life.
But I don't care about that old memory any more! Are you sure? This is an area where we are masters and mistresses of denial. Until these issues are successfully resolved, they hold sway over us, regardless of the logic or lack of it, in this human condition.
Real Law of Attraction Strategy The well researched expert will guide you in getting in touch with what your limiting beliefs really are, and changing the repetitive subconscious messaging you are repeating to yourself in that area.
The only way for any woman to create positive, sustainable change in key life areas, is to change the habits in your subconscious that relate to it. I suggest starting with some reading from the old masters such as Dr Joseph Murphy's work, and for more contemporary, well-researched insight, Dr Norman Doidge's. Let me know what you think...
